how many posts can i reblog in five minutes before disappearing for three hours
sometimes I forget that Americans have to pay for university upfront like what the fuck is that are u guys ok
No we’re not okay.
We’re not okay at all.
Your blog is for you. You post and reblog what you like, and that’s that. Some people will like it, some people will dislike it, and that’s fine. It’s not a judgement of your character, it’s not something to take offense for. People follow and unfollow for all sorts of reasons, but in the end, you shouldn’t waste too much time worrying about what other people think about your interests.
If someone unfollows you after you write a posts about your mental well being, I understand that it hurts, but remember that you don’t know their reasoning. Maybe their unfollow wasn’t even related to that? Maybe that person has their own issues, and just uses tumblr to escape those bad thoughts, and doesn’t want to be reminded of them? You can’t know, so don’t immediately assume that they must hate you. Don’t take offense needlessly.
This sounds cliché, but just be yourself, and make your tumblr dash one you will always enjoy. Unfollow the people you don’t want there, and hope that they can understand that you’re not hurting them by doing so. And in turn, don’t feel hurt when someone unfollows you. It’s not a personal attack, it’s not a judging of your value as a human.
In the end, the followers count is not that important. It feels nice to be validated, surely, but don’t take it too seriously. I constantly see people make passive aggressive posts about losing followers for saying so and so, and honestly, that’s just pointless. Ultimately, I feel like you should use your tumblr for your own reasons, not for someone else’s, and you need to accept that your blog might once have been relevant for their interests, but is no longer that.
That said, thanks for following, and if you choose to unfollow me now or in the future, no hard feelings.
Ancient proverb (via underworldpeace) —
But people I guess can’t live like that
We all must pay a price